What do you do when the life you have is not the life you want?

I am a true believer in change, self-improvement and personal development for me it is the only way to live life but care should be taken to ensure it is not just changing for change sake.

That we are not seeking changes or feeling discontented with life because we are measuring ourselves against others. Seeing the grass greener on the other side, whilst allowing ours to dry out and turn brown!

We all experience times in life, when things get tough, it can appear that nothing is going our way and we have what feels like a string of bad luck…

But is that really what is going on or is there another explanation?

Most people have now heard of the law of attraction and manifestation but how many actually understand the principles and put them into daily practise?

I know for many years I never, it never occurred to me that my inner thoughts were the cause of all the pain, upset, and bad luck I seemed to be getting. I kept trying to look for answers outside of myself, trying to understand how and why I attracted people into my life that treated me so badly.

Until I started my journey until I hit my lowest and turned to spirituality – honesty at the time it was out of sheer desperation. There was no epiphany, no visions of a guardian angel, no light bulb moment, just exhaustion and desperation.

The Journey

On this journey, I learnt that my life was of my own creation. This took some considerable time to get my head around. I certainly wasn’t comfortable in the thought that everything I had gone through was of my own making.

But as I studied and understood more, I started to see that the biggest problem in my life was ME. My inner thoughts, self-judgement, the inner critic was sabotaging my life. My dreams, desires and aspirations were being blocked at every corner. Being blocked by me, subconsciously.

I was attracting negativity because I was thinking negatively, decisions were often made from an energy of fear, lack and control and so I invited fear, lack and control into my life.

The universe reflects back to us, our innermost thoughts. WHERE THOUGHTS GO – ENERGY FLOWS.

The principles are so simple and yet take considerable work to align with the energy of prosperity, peace and harmony.

You can get started by

Truly loving self, learn to embrace and except you are not perfect but give yourself unconditional love anyway. This is a major game changer.

Reconnect with the inner child, regain your innocents and wonderment of the world

Heal old wounds, let go of energy that makes you think badly of self and others

Stop, breathe, listen to your bodies reactions – not your head. Your heart brain is far bigger and wiser than the head

Get to fully understand who you are, what you need at a deeper level, not just materialism

Stop measuring your life by looking at what others have

Learn to trust self, have the confidence to be your own person

Stay away from mainstream media and start listening, watching, reading things that bring you joy

Plan to bring balance into your life, play as much as you work

Get outdoors and breathe, look around what do you see, hear, smell?

You awaken every morning set yourself three positive intentions for the day

When dressing, look yourself straight in the eye and tell yourself three things you like about yourself

And when you go to bed, give gratitude for three great things that have happened that day.

Don’t change for change sake, change because you know you want something different. Change because you have taken the time to explore what you need to feel in your life.

It doesn’t serve you looking at your neighbour’s lawn and desiring that next, tend to your own, what does it need to become lush, full, and bright?

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